Yeah, and the fans that give me hope - subtlelikeseabrook, regressedpdo, raedances and others - are the reasonable ones and are also turning their back. Those are the "mainstream" fans I enjoyed the most and their approach to fandom. At least they turned out as good as I thought.

On the other hand, there's active, fanfic writing fans that want to stay put and kinda sour my experiences before through their conduct now.

(Sorry for taking so long to answer! and always complaining when I do!)